This will be a situation that is truly difficult you all, made more challenging by the daughterвЂ™s jealousy of her dad.
I do believe it might be much better if both you and your spouse spelled out your objectives of her as a team. This can send her the message that you and he are a definite main group, and she cannot muscle in about it.
With her alone first, it might enhance the sense she seems to have that you and she are the inner circle, and your husband is the outsider trying to be included if you were to speak.
It appears like a lot to show and expect from a child, but We have constantly believed вЂ“ and found вЂ“ we who fall short that it is. Our youngsters can handle more them credit for, if only weвЂ™re willing to take the risk and reach out than we give.
ItвЂ™s wonderful that you think in tackling these issues head-on, for the reason that itвЂ™s the way that is only. It is hard now, but will likely be much tougher in after some duration, with all the tweens becoming nearly as watershed a phase of life due to the fact teenagers, with regards to behavior modification an such like. (more…)