Irrespective, read my post once again, combined with the other links we posted, and let me know just what about this is misogynistic. (FTR, it will get without stating that critique of females, in and of itself, just isn’t similar to misogyny).
Into staying in the relationship, my actual happiness be damned– while expecting all the value that was traditionally expected of men– plus more– from me) as I said above: I’ve had plenty of nice dates over the last 20 years with a wide range of otherwise normal women who are decent human beings, and then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to women with masters degrees and doctors (who, FTR, made way more money than I do, and it was never a concern in my eyes), and all of varying physical proportions/attractiveness– short, tall, some slightly overweight, some rail-thin, some flat chested with no hips, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not so much, etc. )… however, they all wound up being bad relationship material for the reasons I listed above (usually the housepet or overgrown child categories– they expected their default existence how to message someone on polyamory date in my life or half-assed efforts that I had to “command”/ask/request/beg of them to be all that’s required– basically they only wanted to do enough to placate me.
Clearly i need to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put enough effort into my past relationships they progressed to the level on multiple occasion they wished to invest their life beside me, marry me, have kids beside me, and additionally they even did the big most of initiating sexually (whether or not we rejected them or otherwise not), etc. Unfortuitously, like the majority of other “modern” ladies, they certainly were either incapable because of incompetence, or simply just declined to exhibit shared respect through real proactive work, and so I broke off my dedication to them (often times after several years of persistence as a husband, and gain all of what that entails (provision of all facets of security– emotional, physical, and financial; please them as a lover; make them feel special and appreciated, etc. ), but they didn’t want to have to work even to a minimal extent at being a wife, returning those same sentiments in a feminine way as a matter of mutual respect in return (at times even fighting tooth-and-nail to justify why they shouldn’t have to) with them)… in short, they wanted me to give them kids, and to acquire me. (more…)